Tips on how to be a successful Phone Entertainer

Despite the proliferation of Internet porn, live phone sex continues to be an extremely successful industry. Having been a professional phone sex operator for over a decade, I can tell you that phone sex can be a fun, sexy and lucrative experience.
If you are a shy person, though, it is going to be extremely difficult to be a successful phone sex operator, as it involves very explicit conversation from both parties involved. As a phone entertainer, you are expected to be assertive and even aggressive because you will be leading the conversation most of the time. Every so often, men will say nothing on the phone and just listen. Therefore, be prepared to be talking a lot, not just moaning, and know that most of the time you will just be talking to an empty phone. Make sure you always have some water on hand.
Having a sensual voice is a good attribute, but you need many other abilities and skills to be a good phone sex entertainer. You basically need four main skills to be successful as a PSO, which are organizational, imaginative, improvisational and effective listening skills. Listening skills are essential, because many calls will not be about sex at all, but about loneliness, love and reassurance. Many of the callers I talked to just wanted to hash out a fight with their wife, and were looking for someone to listen and to feel wanted.
If you lack sexual experience, you will have to be able to use your imagination a lot and, at least, know the basics. Most of the sexual practices my callers call about I have never even thought of doing in my life, such as fisting, spanking, anal rimming, cum eating, deep throat, threesome, gang bangs and bukkake, just to mention a few, but at least I know the basics and I have a vivid imagination.
Phone sex operators are expected to be well acquainted with all the mainstream fetishes and perverted sexual practices. I honestly had no idea how men were into feet, before working as a phone sex operator. Other popular fetishes include necrophilia, forced crossdressing, vampirism, pussy tickling and paddling. You think you know but you have no idea how many sadomasochists, diaper fetishists and furries there are out there! Sometimes fetishes are also funny. Learn how to keep a straight face is crucial to anyone with a career in professional fetish phone sex. People take their fetishes very seriously, which means that you will need to sound like you do the same.
Another important skill to be a successful phone sex operator is to learn how to simulate masturbation. Use lotion or something wet to simulate touching yourself, along with convincing sighs, moans and groans.
Be prepared to get nasty requests, be psychologically invaded and be a little scared. Some callers’ notion of kink is just horrifying. I have been asked for incest role-play, pretending being murdered by the caller, bestiality, paedophilia, Satanism and snuff, which consists in filming a woman while being raped and killed, for sexual arousal. You can say no, or yes. Remember that you reserve the right to say no and end a call.
It may happen to be stuck when it comes to slang terms. The first time it happened to me to hear the word cream pie I honestly had no idea what the caller was referring to. In cases like that, while talking to the caller I usually look up terms on online dictionaries, such as UrbanDictionary.com, but I make sure that he doesn’t hear me typing.